The Wonders of Video Modeling

March 29th, 2012
The Wonders of Video Modeling

Video Modeling is a scientifically proven method of teaching and has been approved by the CEC (Council for Exceptional Children).  Studies have been around for many years, but video modeling seems to have just recently surfaced into the mainstream.

I made my own video modeling about 10 years ago having no idea of how effective it was.  I made videos out of pure desperation to teach my autistic child.

Video Modeling provides so many lessons, moments, pictures, cues and more.  These visuals simply cannot be replicated in one on one teaching to the extent the teaching can be done in video.  VM provides repetition without needing a teacher.  There are no distracters in VM – no one to attend to – no demands being placed on you and no actions needed.  VM is simply watching.   Most children with autism are visual learners; which explains the attraction and success.

Autistic children can and do learn skills through one on one teaching.  Many times these skills acquired tend to be robotic and are not easily generalized.  A one on one setting is not real life.  Proper VM can provide more than skill generation, but also a stepping stone to generalization along with social skill teaching.  As a simple example, a video can show 2 children doing a puzzle.  So, they are learning an academic skill of doing a puzzle, while at the same time, taking turns, sharing, social initiation and talking if able.  Another example of a video is of 2 children playing catch.  The children are learning the gross motor skills of catching and throwing, following directions, language skills and appropriate timing of employing language such as “throw it”, “catch it”, “over here”, “nice catch”, etc….  You can see that the opportunities of providing video of real life can be much more inclusive than one on one skill teaching.  And again, the repetition of a video is key!

Once skills are obtained, generalization easily occurs by setting up a scene as shown in the movie, mimicking the scene and then beginning to change the environment of the scene.  As an example, child learns to build a sand castle from video.  Mimic the scene and build a sand castle.  Expand and begin to generalize by going to park and build castle, take a child to play with and build castle, build castle at beach, have 3 or 4 children work together, etc…

Children love children!  Children learn through play and having fun.  This is what I have learned through the years and what I employ in my Watch Me Learn videos.  VM is super effective but can also be a lot of fun and a very diverse teaching tool.  Watch Me Learn has also been scientifically proven as a valid teaching tool.

Watch Me Learn teaches functional skills, play skills, social skills, language skills and much more.  These skills are embedded in a video of fun!  Children do not know they are learning – they think they are having fun watching kids play!  We are in the process of developing a curriculum and assessment in a sequential order of age acquired skills.  We also provide guidance as to how to use video modeling and how to build upon videos and generalize skills.

For more information on our videos, please visit www.watchmelearn.com.   For information on guidance, please send us an email at info@watchmelearn.com or marybeth@watchmelearn.com.   The guidance is a new feature that we have added and we will be announcing upcoming webinars and active online sessions.  Our facebook page https://www.facebook.com/pages/Watch-Me-Learn/66338493425?ref=ts – we share updates, stories and you are welcome to share your stories and questions, experiences and anything else you would like.

Bullying, or Discrimination?

March 20th, 2012
Bullying, or Discrimination?

Discrimination definition:  the practice of unfairly treating a person or group of people differently from other people or groups of people  Source:  Merriam Webster

Bully:  someone who frightens, hurts, or threatens smaller or weaker people
Source:  Merriam Webster

Frightening, hurting or threatening weaker or smaller people are all unfair treatments, whether to a person or group of people who are different than others.

My interpretation is that they are the same…..  The traditional interpretation of discrimination is treating people differently due to differences in race, ethnicity, religious beliefs, etc….  In America, much of this ”discrimination” has dissipated and many people do not engage.  Here in the NY area, people of all religious groups, ethnic groups, and race co-exist peacefully.   Recently I heard someone refer to discrimination as “so the 60’s”.  From what I see, my children are growing up in a world in which “traditional discrimination” basically doesn’t exist.  I emphasize that is what I see here in NY.  There is a reason that they call New York City the “melting pot”.

Now in the year 2012 – discrimination is still here – but the public emphasis has shifted.  Gay marriage has become a political and discriminatory issue.   We have laws on sexual discrimination – but our children are basically ignored by the law in discrimination actions.

I know that as a child I was bullied – I was little, super skinny (wish that stayed the same), quiet and some other qualities that were the reason behind the bullying – and just plain MEAN kids.   Where do mean kids come from?  Some are just experimenting.  But for others, have you ever heard the expression “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree?”

I don’t remember too much bullying of special education children.  Where was that?  I remember a little but nothing like I see today.

My son has been bullied – also discriminated against.  Everyone says that he is being bullied or teased.  The definition of discrimination above defines discrimination as “unfair treatment of a person different from other people.”

Well – my son is different and he has been treated unfairly.  He has been physically abused, the one highlighted in a Youtube incident using words that were definitely discriminatory.  He has been excluded from teams and even treated differently and sarcastically by adults running teams.  Aren’t the adults supposed to be setting an example?   That’s a good one!!!!  Keep the laughing to a minimum.

Think back when the immigrants were first coming to the US.  They were smaller and weaker and were treated horribly.  Think about slavery; those people were a smaller and weaker group who were treated horribly.  Think about gay people; smaller and weaker group who are now fighting for equality.  I could go on and on naming different groups.

Special Education children are no different – they are weaker and a smaller group – probably one of the easiest targets for mistreatment.  Most of them are unable to advocate for themselves which makes their situation even worse than the other groups that are discriminated against.  Unless people stand up for them and advocate, they do not have a chance….

So – again – is it bullying or discrimination?  It is both!!!!!!

How should some of the actions be treated, as an issue of bullying or a legal issue?  To the extent of the action and within reason, I personally think that it should be treated as a legal issue.

Schools have a code of conduct – well who decides how that is interpreted?  The school decides.  In this case, we have to have faith in our schools and their personnel.  I have faith in some of the personnel – but not all of it.

Reporting bullying or illegal activities is not an action the school wants to take.  Why not?  It may be in the papers, it will “look bad” for the school, it may be in the records, impact the public opinion of the school and therefore affect property values – so where is the incentive?  There is none….

Think about it!

An informational blog you may find o

March 10th, 2012
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Brett learned this from video modeling!

I blog I  found that provides some great daily news and help about autism -

Check it out – you may find it of interest – of course I found it through video modeling and it’s effects on learning – including social skills!!!   Visit us at www.watchmelearn.com 

Visit the informational blog at:

http://positively-autism.blogspot.com/2012/03/intro-to-video-modeling.html?showComment=1331392515298#c1129894759790960573

Video Modeling better than Self Video modeling – study indicates

March 6th, 2012
Video Modeling better than Self Video modeling – study indicates
 

 

ADL Skills Video Modeling

Washing Hands - great way to teach ADL skills

Here is a study with the abstract – showing that video modeling of others proves to be more effective than video self modeling.  We all know that video modeling works – this helps to explain that it is more effective when filming others.

Happy reading!

ABSTRACT

Hope for Autism

February 24th, 2012
Hope for Autism
Recently this month, Brett Palo, son of Watch Me Learn’s Mary Beth Palo, took first place in a diving meet again his school’s rivals.  He was published in Long Island’s Newsday as athlete of the week!

Brett has autism, and it has always been a struggle for him to find his niche in school.  As a 7th grader at Oldfield Middle School, Brett has scored himself a spot on the Harborfields Varsity Swim team.  Through tireless hours of hard work and determination, Brett got himself to where he is today.

What many people don’t know, is that Brett learned everything from video modeling.  He learned everything from asking for juice all the way to diving on a swim team.  It is incredible to see how far he has come at age 12.

Brett is proof that there is hope for autism. Through determination, video modeling, hard work, and focus of autism, he has been led down the path of success.  It is stories like this that give hope to all of those with autism!

Funny Diving Blooper!

Autism is now a business- so what really works?

February 13th, 2012
Autism is now a business- so what really works?

We at Watch Me Learn get so many calls from parents and one question about our products leads to a 45 minute phone call discussing what therapies and products really work – And WHERE to begin?

While we do not have ALL the answers, we certainly can share our experiences, successes and strong opinions.  On this blog, we do not want to target any particular therapy with a negative review – but will give our opinion on what we believe works and some of our advice.

First of all, as a caregiver to a child with a disability, ASK QUESTIONS - people in the same position as you will generally be happy to share with you and to refer you to doctors, therapists, schools, etc….   Information is power so get as much as you can.  Listen to both negative and positive – then make your own decisions.

2nd – Get a program started – while your initial decision may not be the best fit, it can be changed, modified or eliminated – But you have to start somewhere.  This is when you need to follow your gut and start to believe in yourself and your decisions.  You know the child the best and therefore know what is best for the child – REMEMBER THIS – while you may not be a doctor or a professional or certified teacher, you are the caregiver and such you know the child the best !!!!!  BELIEVE this….

1.  Medical treatment – this is pretty tough as there are soooooo many treatments out there – certainly you can try some of the non-invasive treatments easily – like a special diet – psychological therapy.   We do not endorse any medical treatments simply to protect ourselves.

2.  Therapies – Speech, ABA, VB, OT, RTI, Floortime, Video modeling, Social skills classes, etc….

We do not know every therapy or product available – but the experiences we have had, lead us to believe that therapy works best when you know what the goal is, what the therapy involves, how the child is responding and what your gut opinion is.  This is one of the hardest!   It is easy to trust a professional’s opinion and can lead down a different path than you want.  Trust yourself!

Goal, treatment, response, functionality…..   the 4 things to remember when deciding a treatment!  So – with that said, we recommend teaching in a natural environment – if a child is too distracted in such an environment, then it must be in a private area.  Know the goal of the treatment and make sure it is in line with reality -what the purpose of the goal is, and  how it will be generalized.

What is the child’s response?  Is it taking too long to learn, is the child acting out?  If so, something needs to change.  Possibilities could be environment, teacher, behavioral intervention, etc….

Functionality – Our biggest goal!!!!!   Teaching works in many different environments but is 100% useless if it is not generalized.  Our goal is for children to function in society so they have to learn how to behave and function in this society.  This can ONLY happen when a child practices his or her skills in the real world.  GENERALIZATION is what works!!!!

However you get to generalization, this is the therapy that will lead your child to success.  So the answer is that many therapies work – you as the caregiver can make that determination – but the therapy is useless unless it is generalized.

What therapies have worked best for us?  Video modeling, practice in typical environment, Speech, VB, social skills, repitition,  physical exercise, surrounding child with peers, practice, practice, practice and more practice.   This is one of the reasons that Video Modeling has been such a success for us.  It alows a child to watch and learn – as many times as they need.  In addition, there are no demands when watching and the outside distractors are removed.  It’s pretty much common sense.  Children love watching children and children want to be with other children.

As far as the products – be careful not to go with trendy therapies promising recovery – get the products that support your most successful treatment - many products are already in your home or can be made… and many can be purchased from reputable distributors.   Remember – it’s about GENERALIZATION, so you want products and therapies that reflect the real world.

For research on video modeling click here - Scientific Evidence on VM

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Not perfect, but keep trying!

February 2nd, 2012
Not perfect, but keep trying!

Woops! splat

I’m just sharing here – this is a cute movie of a mistake at diving – Brett smacked a bit!  

He is one of the most stubborn and determined people I know – one of the good things about his disability.  While swimming is an individual sport – he is part of a team and that is invaluable.  Not only is he getting exercise and doing something he loves, but he is learning about the responsibilities of being on a team, listening, joining and so much more!  He has been at it for quite  a while…..  and of course he learned through video!   Thank you Greg Louganis!

It isn’t perfect – but he keeps on trying!   Go Brett!!

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Run Forrest Run!

January 9th, 2012
Run Forrest Run!

 

Run Forest Run! Run Grace Run!!!!!

 

A cute story – of course the bottom line relates to video modeling – but this one that delighted our whole family and gave us quite the chuckle!

The other morning, my daughter was going to be late for school – OH GOD!  So, she was running around the house like a lunatic – and I was in the car waiting for her – well her brother was watching her run around …..  and just before she exited the door – he said to her “Run, Forest, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”  Well, she burst out laughing and came to the car with a big smile on her face!

A horrible morning for her turned into a smiling morning because of something that her brother learned from tv and was able to use in real life in his favorite defense mechanism – Humor!

Hope you are smiling!

I wish I had the time to video tape everything in Brett’s world – because I know that he would absorb it all and learn it immediately – its like no other tool!

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Tip of the Week by Mary Beth

December 12th, 2011
Tip of the Week by Mary Beth

What do I do?

Initially I had planned on writing an organized blog in sequential order – but this blog is coming from my heart and my knowledge so it is impossible for me to present sequentially as my life is not sequential at all.   I am quite organized, but when it comes to emotions, that organization goes out the window!

So I will present this as my emotions tell me to – and keep my readers in suspense!

What do I do?  This question is one that you will ask yourself daily, hourly or by the minute…

This question also applies to so many subjects that you may consider – so for the purpose of sharing this information with you, I am going to present an outline that can at least be used as a starting point for most decisions.  Otherwise this blog would be a book…..

Well – I always go back to the basics – I wish that others would do the same, but sometimes it seems that today’s society – we have forgotten the basics.  Technology has taken over our world.  The basics for decision making are the “WH” questions.

What are your options? (ASK or research) What does your research tell you?  What does your GUT tell you?(this is the one I follow the most)

What is the potential result?  What progress did we make?

How do I get information? (ASK or research) How will my actions affect child?  How do I get this to happen?  How do I know if it right?  How do I find the proper people?

Where do I start?  (ASK or research)  Where do I begin?  Where do I go for help or advice?  Where do I turn next?

Who can help me? (ASK or research)  Who can provide this service?  Who do I trust?  Who has my best interests at heart?

When do I ask questions?  When do I do research?  When do I ask for help?  When do I search for other options?  NOW

Why do I ask for information?  Why do I research?  Why do I talk to others about it?  Why do others disagree?  Why are people hurtful? (because they are ignorant)

How – this is the hardest!   How do I get out of bed?  How do I face my day?  How do I do all of this?  How do I become assertive?  (I tend to use a different word than assertive and it starts with a b)  How do I handle strangers?  How do I handle my child?  How do I work on behavior, language, motor skills, etc…..

HOW HOW HOW

One step at a time…..  first is to kick off the blankets…..

I am still asking these questions regularly – even when I go downstairs and forgot why I went there….

Today I asked myself many questions – what is the law?  How do I feel?  How does my son feel?  What does he need?  What is wrong here?  How do I make it right?  Who will help  me make it right?  What documents do I need to gather?  When am I ever going to fit that into my schedule?

You see there is a basic outline here ……  and one question you need to ask yourself daily:  What did I accomplish today and recognize your accomplishments

(This task has taken me years of therapy to actually accept – and I STILL need to remind myself – sticky notes help)

and the mirror helps – practice in front of it – that is called visual memory – which is for another day – (Ever hear someone say “I can see it in my head”)  PRACTICE

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Unknowns of the upcoming days-month-etc…

November 30th, 2011
Unknowns of the upcoming days-month-etc…

Fear of the unknown or the future.  Well – get used to this if you have not already.   This fear is most likely applicable to every aspect of your life – unless you are one of those people who just never worry – and if you are, then I suggest you start to listen to the worries of child’s main caregiver.

The unknown either generates fear or complacency.  Complacency is unacceptable when dealing with any child.   The future brings change – and this change is an unknown.  The changes take place by the minute, week, season, etc….  Change of all kinds take place – social situations, social actions, language, environment, noise, place, etc…  So – what do you do to help yourself, the child?

The first step is to determine what is next – how do you feel about it?  Are you nervous?  Then guess what?  most likely your child is too!  Talk to the caregiver about what is ahead for the day or for the afternoon – ask them their concerns.

To the best of your ability prepare for the future (immediate in this blog).  Ask what will be happening in therapy, ask what will take place at the party, ask where the class is, ask the “WH” questions. Asking these questions applies to everything in the future.  If you know what is next, you will be less anxious about it.   You are able to prepare for it and mentally process it.  You are able to discuss with child as appropriate.  Use whatever means you can to prep child.

Take the unknown out of the future by asking questions, getting answers and doing your preparation for it.  Preparation varies for every child so it is tough for me to detail this.  Information is power – knowing what is ahead enables you to prepare.

I write this today as I know that many of you are probably worried about the upcoming holidays, the upcoming vacations and the upcoming social pressures.  I get it!   This is what I tried to do in every situation – it helped me a lot!  But you are only human and can do so much (i have had a very hard time accepting this).  Enlist help – others can put activities together, pack a bag of favorites, make phone calls, make activity dates, and so on…….   PLEASE don’t be afraid to ask!

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